START DOING THINGS WITHOUT BEING PUSHED AROUND

I ALWAYS YOU ALWAYS HAVE MY BEST INTERESTS IN MIND. SO THANK YOU!

BE GRATEFUL!

FOR THE THINGS YOU HAVE.

ALL THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS

All THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS WE LOVE


Saturday, December 10, 2022

🧿 Life Is Short

 


Life is Short .... Don't squander the chance to be kind. Kindness only a smile or a gesture. Kindness is Love in Action. And Love Is Everything. 

Sunday, November 27, 2022

🧿 When all else fails. Do you really cursed others just cause they pissed you off?

 


🧿 When all else fails. Do you really cursed others just cause they pissed you off?
I'm no perfect. I'm only human. Having a really bad day can sometimes get thrown to you without warning, which causes us to shoot out foul unpleasant words out of your mouth. Emotions can run wild without having a sec to think as that moment erupts.
How could you? would you? take it back what you have already said. Reverse it by pausing, stop and think. They can be negative all they want, You need to be the blessed one in all walks of life, in any given situation.

Friday, November 25, 2022

🧿 Creating a magic moment to anyone or with someone is not an easy task

 


🧿 Creating a magic moment to anyone or with someone is not an easy task. When people send a vibes as they approach you, it can either go from good to better, or bad to worst.
My current position requires me to engage different levels in anyone's life. Yet they always asked how do I manage to stay cool and balance whilst getting very overwhelmed. It's easy really, you live by the moment as it comes to you. You smile, you need to put the customer or anyone at ease, you must engage in small talk and listen to what they have to say. They'll appreciate it.
Never let your sparks burn down. Always create a little magic everyday.

🧿 When the stone of Transformation and the stone of courage calls to you.

 



🧿 When the stone of Transformation and the stone of courage calls to you, then Labradorite may be the healing stone you have been waiting for.
I became fascinated about Labradorite as soon as I laid my eyes on them illuminating transformation stone. I get anxiety from time to time and Labradorite starts to kick and pulls me back on track. The stone clearly stimulates your mental clarity, helping you to chase away the fog and stay level and concise in your own mind. Gradually, it can help you make amazing decisions.

Saturday, November 19, 2022

🧿 It's easier to beg forgiveness than to ask for permission

 


The statement implies that permission should be asked before proceeding with the action you plan to do. Your action somehow crosses a boundary that would be a concern to the person you would eventually need to ask forgiveness from.
Not asking permission when you know you should ask permission is a willful and premeditated act. You have thought about it beforehand and you made the decision not to ask permission.
I'd say it's better to ask permission first rather than taking the easy way. It is also deceptive. The course of action creates distrust. And you devalue the person when you choose not to ask permission.
When you ask forgiveness for something when you could have asked permission first, your apology is empty. You really aren't sorry for what you did. You are glad you did it. You feel justified in doing it. You did it without consideration of the person you would hurt or the boundary you would cross. You are really not asking forgiveness at all.
It would be better to care enough to ask permission.

🧿 What are you thankful of today

 



Perhaps we all could practice a little of this in our lives every single day. Readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.
Especially when the universe is on your side.

🧿 How exactly do you make a beautiful life for yourself

 


🧿 How exactly do you make a beautiful life for yourself.
I've reached to a point that a healthy beautiful life is to know your boundaries and your worth in any manner. Create a life hidden from negativity and false pretentious persona. Focusing on you is very important as much as you try to improve yourself for good.
Now a days, people live under a shadow of others to the extent of having the same life to whom they seek validation. Having to manifest your own beautiful life doesn't necessarily need to be in the shadow of others.
Take Care of yourself first and live a healthy beautiful life.

Friday, November 18, 2022

Healing is the end of conflict with yourself - IT TAKES TIME, A VERY LONG LONG TIME...

 


🩹 🥀 We repeat what we don’t repair

The trauma from a wound that will never heal. Do you ever wonder if healing from emotional wounds is really possible? Can someone really heal from trauma, rejection, depression, a broken heart?

Personally, when you feel so broken and defeated, the task of rebuilding or reinventing yourself and your life feels overwhelming. It's natural to have doubts to wonder if emotional healing is really possible.

They say you need to take baby steps because trying to make too many changes all at once can backfire. Remember that you don't have to heal 100% to improve the quality of your life. 

Saturday, November 12, 2022

Protecting your energy is not selfish - IT'S SELF-LOVE


I protect my energy by keeping my circle small.
I protect my energy by unfollowing content that disturbs it.
I protect my energy by responding when I'm mentally ready.
I protect my energy by enjoying my alone time.
I protect my energy by accepting the responsibility I have to do so.
I protect my energy by enforcing boundaries.
I protect my energy by releasing what wants to leave.
I protect my energy by releasing expectations.
I protect my energy by prioritizing growth and ease.
I protect my energy by not giving too my of my energy to the wrong people
I protect my energy by not giving everyone access to my energy
I protect my energy by not feeling guilt for doing what's best for me.
I protect my energy by cultivating more self-love.
“There are older versions of you that only exist because other people give them oxygen, and you are not obliged to keep those versions alive to make other people happy.” 💖

Friday, November 11, 2022

When it comes to toxic people or negative energy - THE WRONG PEOPLE

 


When it come to toxic people or negative energy, we've all experienced it. It's exhausting. We may have felt under psychic attack (when negative energy such as ill wishes, jealousy or hatred is directed toward you), or you may have been pulled into drama at the workplace or friend group that left you drained. When we experience negativity, it makes us vulnerable, disrupts our sense of self, and makes those around us miserable. Negativity can also come from within ourselves - our thoughts, emotions and bad habits can be our worst enemy.

Sunday, November 6, 2022

You are a beautiful soul - WE SEE EACH OTHER EYE TO EYE

 



You will know when you get connected to someone or anyone almost immediately, when their soul meets with you eye to eye. 

Friday, November 4, 2022

Nice words - Hard to commit

 


Words are very powerful. It can either make or break a person. The heat of the moment can intimidate you to either be good or bad on how you react and respond. We don't have control over things that triggers the anger inside our head and the response from our heart. It is very dramatic that we invest so much in listening to motivation and inspirational speech or quotes that we are unable to apply those to us when we have been attacked. 

It's also powerful on how we listen to people and we are able to give a calm response to help the other person. We all go through different phases in life and the road ahead is not always smooth. A bumpy ride and so much shaded area that we know nothing about, can really determine how well we respond or say to people. 

Life isn't all about hatred and love. Life is all about understand the meaning and purpose of life. Why are you here, what is your role in this world. Most importantly, what is your role towards the people around you.

I am so much more than just an opinion

 


Part of human life. Other people's opinion doesn't really matter to me. Some other times I get a comment, you are fat, you are too short to look good on that, and the best one I got was "your resemblance to this person that looks like a crap", so on and so forth. But do they really matter to me? what benefit can I get in order to grow? how much mental pain do I let them inject in my brain and in my heart? 

When we were much younger, all only care about is our reputation and being competitive, to be so loud and be heard, a narcissists' in our own way. And it's a creeper that shift us all out of balance. Being at a young age, maturity is way far off to be on top of our list. 

But as soon as the days, months and years goes by, we mature with experience, with people, and time. Their opinion don't matter because it doesn't benefit me in order to grow more as a person. 

What I do makes a difference - THE REAL ME AND NOT YOU

 


In this generation, what difference does it make when everyone seems to be mimicking and copy everyone else's style and actions? Being different that stands out from the crowed is not from another person's persona. So many young teens, ladies & women no longer have their own identity because they copy each other. You are no longer unique in your own way, when you paint yourself as someone else you are not. 

To be different is to be the real you. Not them to be you. Stand out from the crowd.  

Good things are coming - STAY IN COURSE

 


In every single day you wake up. It's not so hard to think positive when you feel the shit creeping your thoughts right away. Allowing to block those thoughts right away is the only way good vibes will stay with you the entire time. It takes a steady motivation to keep positivity the entire time. 

You are a good reason to be happy - YES I AM

 



The reason for my happiness is enough to keep going. Number one priority is myself, then my daughter, and the rest of my family. There is no one else that matters to you to elaborate more in justifying what other good reason for you to be happy. You need to start with yourself first. And the rest will follow into place.

I am a sensitive soul and I am a warrior - INDEED

 


I have had my stormy battles. What keeps me going is my family, my daughter. I used to think of others more than my own, and when I deep dive into depression. No one was there to lift my spirit up, but myself. My sensitive is keeping me in toes. My soul is my candle, it will always going to be lit and will burn stronger with a warriors heart. 

I decide what kind of life I chose - IT CAN SAY NO

 



I have decided that I DON'T GIVE A SHIT what other's think and I should run my life. Either you are with me or against me. I've already looked back in the past on how I treated myself unfairly. I listen too much to other people, take for granted on how I respond. Belittle myself when other's made or suggest comments on how I should work on improving my self and lifestyle. No, I don't value your opinion if it doesn't gain me anything or benefit to me in the future. By the end of the day, my decision is what matters. 

It's okay if I can't handle it all today - I GET IT

 


Overwhelmed I was and still am. But let me tell you this one or two people is not enough for me to give up. I don't have all the answers to be able to figure things out right on the spot. I when I do struggle, I kow that it is okay if I can't handle it all at once today.

Good things take time - INDEED



Encourage yourself to be more patience. More gentle and more understanding. Things you always wanted can sometimes betrays you. My thoughts can be divided into two, and either way, I am, I will patiently wait. 

Life is a nonstop journey - I AM PROUD

 


My journey stops when I stop breathing. I am lucky to say, regardless of the countless exhausting struggles that had happened. I am still here, standing, breathing and thankful. I can't wait to embrace more journey in life. Either good or Bad. Let is come through and I will tackle it head on.

Hello NOVEMBER 2022

 



It's been four years since I posted here. Four years I left my blog undone. I have so many that I can't help but think and wonder. When do I ever change my mind and stick to one. No, this tells me that my mind changes all the time focusing on so many things that can never mind up it's mind. 

If you look back, my very last post before this to date was back in June 2018. 

I call it the year of my struggles. 

You are doing better than you think. I AM PROUD

 



This really is a beautiful quote. There are a lot of times when we I think, "have I done enough", "Am I good enough on all the things to be proud of myself". 

Your thoughts can linger for quiet sometime and you stop but wonder. But I am grateful to be alive. Life has been doing ok so far.